Often times the best way to find a solution is via the newsgroups. Here are some links to get you started on a number of products and technologies

Borland Software - http://info.borland.com/newsgroups/

JavaSoft Forums - http://forum.java.sun.com/

Apache HTTP Project - http://httpd.apache.org/lists.html

Apache Jakarta Project - http://jakarta.apache.org/site/mail.html